It was 3 years ago that I was introduced to my partner. We clicked straight away and are now living together. I went to Vital because I was also sick of internet dating. It's reassuring to know all guys are screened and I only met the ones I wanted to meet. I support...
How to Recover After a Bad Date
Bad dates happen to everyone. You go out on a date, and everything falls flat. The conversation starts awkward and stays that way all night long. Maybe something embarrassing happens, like spilling wine all over your best formal wear. Or maybe everything went well,...
Denis and Amanda
Vital Partners were the guiding force behind the introduction of Denis and myself. Denis had come out of a 25 yr marriage and was left 3 boys to rear and I had been a single mother of 2 for a few years and had literally given up meeting any decent men who had similar...
Derek and Julie
Hi Recel, An update for you.. When Derek and I met for the first time Saturday night I was as nervous as all hell!!! I wasn't at all nervous with the other ones but this one just seemed different (from the phone conversations - we talked for hours!) Anyway, I met him...
Lorraine and John
John and I have been seeing each other for five months yesterday. John was the third man that I had met through Vital. We met at a club and had drinks the first meeting and had a lovely evening. We agreed after the first meeting that we would go out again. The second...
How to survive – and even fall in love with – Valentine’s Day
Hearts are blooming in flower shops and stationery stores, supermarkets are dripping in chocolates and restaurants are filling with tables for two. If the calendar hasn’t already alerted you, walking down the street will: it’s Valentine’s Day again and if you’re...
Kasin and Ian
Kasin and I are well past the tea and coffee stage. We are just spending the weekend together and FYI - Hope you had a great X mas and all the best for a wonderful new year. Have spent most of our time swimming and just relaxing. Great weather. We will keep you...
3 Keys for First Date Success
Does any of this sound familiar on your first date? Forced conversation Awkward silences Eyes darting around the room Uncomfortable fidgeting Playing with food Desperately waiting for the bill So what are the keys to first date success? How can you change your dating...
How to succeed at dating this spring
‘When travelling the path of life and finding love along the way, everything looks new and different.’ – Oscar Wilde. September has rolled around and there’s no denying it – love is once again in the air. For some unknown reason, the combination of crisp, clean...
Benefits of Partnership
Popular culture would have us believe that it is the young lady who is desperate to get married “before it’s too late”. This is an especially funny situation when you consider that most studies show that, overall, men benefit from marriage than women do. Both married...
Rebecca and Matt
To Recel & Staff, We are on our first mini holiday together. Things are great. Together we have so much in common and we are growing stronger every day. Thanks so much for your services and support throughout the whole process. Best wishes and we will keep you...
How to seduce a man
Finding and winning a man is not a hunter and prey situation, but sometimes it can feel that way. The happy fact is, there really are a lot of terrific guys out there. An even happier realisation is that one of them, or perhaps even several of them would love to be...












